SPIRITUAL USES: Can indicate that you have been overwhelmed and defeated by another in relationship. You want to be a nice, caring person and have harmony in your life. Yet, it isn't there and you are trying so hard to make everyone happy. All you find is that they are miserable and so are you. If someone would ask you how everything is, you would say, "Everything is fine and wonderful." You know it is not, but you have learned to put a smile on a bad situation and to hide the truth. Can also indicate you are a sponge and soak up negativity in the space. Everyone feels better, but you do not. You can become so full of negativity that you cannot hold any more and will be forced to leave the area or relationship. Anise raven will help you clear this negativity. Anise Raven gives you the courage to focus on yourself and do what you need to do. This could mean that some of the relationships in your life may not survive. Anise Raven helps drawn strength from within youself. You are here to first serve yourself and then you can serve others.